‘ATTACHMENT’ AND ‘ACCEPTANCE’

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Things are supposed to be happening, either it will be stable or unstable. Accordingly, the most beautiful and also the unstable thing is attachment to other things. We firstly don’t hesitate to make friends, to love and share each other things, going with this, deep and deep conversations whole day and after years, silence attacks slowly by passing or growing stages. We never know what will be the future or sometimes really don’t need to because the present is so beautiful that we are dwelling into it.
We love the part when someone knows our weaknesses and reacts accordingly.
We love those who share things as you with them.
We are in love with closeness i.e., our family, friends, teachers, nature,etc. But when those attachments one day getting far, it really hurt our feelings. We unknowingly separates us from that attachment hoping that something happens for good. The best way is just moving on and getting over it.
It’s okay to be alone and thinking to make new things in your way and to go for a date.
It’s okay to dream but work for it.
It’s okay to trust someone and accept the challenge. It’s okay to cut off with negativity and make yourself happy. It’s okay to care less, because you’ll be less stressed.

“Live your life unattached from the approval of others; if you know your being is in the right place, act upon it. Perhaps the best thing I’ve seen in a while. What you allow is what will continue so be sure it will be a right step.
People want happiness here and now. We build relationships based on genuine feelings of equality, which goes on throughout life. We choose a partner hoping for a source of affection, love and support, and, more than ever, a best friend. Finding such a partner is a wonderful experience. We somehow don’t get all that we had hoped for. The best kind of people are the ones that come into your life, and make you see the light comes out of a way where you once saw closed doors. Nevertheless, what follows is confusion. It may simply be the nature of learning, but things that we do in the present is based upon our past experiences.  It’s okay to have some bad experiences but you gained something for the next time.
Understanding is important in all aspects as this is the main strong connection between two people. If you don’t understand or like what your partner is doing, ask about it and why he or she is doing it. And vice versa. Explore.Talk. Don’t assume. Express your feelings. Trust your instincts. Never expect, never assume, never demand, just let it be. If it’s meant to be it will happen.
The magic.. that’s what we are living for.

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8 thoughts on “‘ATTACHMENT’ AND ‘ACCEPTANCE’

  1. This is true and spot on Anu! If I may share something that expounds on your message and post, I feel it compliments all you’ve said. Please excuse the length, but I feel it is worth it — like your earlier book analogy! 😉

    It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

    It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

    It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shrivelled and closed from fear of further pain.

    I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it.

    I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, remember the limitations of being human.

    It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

    I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence.

    I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, ‘Yes.’

    It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

    It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.

    It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

    I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
    The Invitation, by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

    Another great post Anu!

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